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Are You Visualizing Your Success?
Posted by: | CommentsVisualizing your goals and desires is a very powerful way to attract what you want into your life more quickly. Before visualizing, the first thing you need to do is to make a decision about what you really want. You need to get crystal clear on exactly what you want to experience or have in your life six months, one year, and three years from now. You need to set some goals, write them down, and add dates for when you want to achieve them.

Once you have determined your goals, you need to really believe that you can actually have them. Belief always precedes attraction and results. You’ll want to picture yourself doing work you love, working with only your ideal clients, making your ideal income, and having enough time off for friends, family and personal interests.
Use your imagination to put yourself inside your visualization as if it were happening right now in this moment. Imagine what it feels and looks like to have achieved your goals. Picture it like a movie that’s unfolding, not just a snapshot in time. For example, if you want to attract more ideal clients, actually imagine their faces, see then interacting with you, and hear them say “Yes, I’m ready to work with you.” Feel the joy your experience in that moment.
If increased income is your goal, picture your ideal clients handing you a check made out with your name on it and the exact increased amount you want to charge for your services and programs. Or, if you take credit cards, imagine swiping their card or them giving you their number so you can process their order. Feel the sense of security and confidence you will feel as your bank balance increases.
Breathe in the positive feelings you experience as you imagine your ideal scene. Notice if you feel happier, more self-assured or confident, more peaceful or energized when you picture your goals being achieved. The feelings that come up for you are an essential piece to activate your vision and turn it into reality.
For best results, visualize daily. First thing in the morning and last thing at night are the best times. Throughout the day, you might also use a visual cue, such as a vision board, to remind you to connect with your vision and imagine the outcomes you want. Imagine as if it were happening right now, and make all your decisions from that future place.
Many people are visualizing, but get stopped in the belief part of the goal achievement process. They have some self-limiting beliefs they need to clear before the visualization will have enough power to attract what they really want.
For example, they may say “I want to earn a million dollars”, but their underlying belief says “I’d have to work too hard to make seven figures” or “People would never be willing to pay me enough for me to earn seven figures”. In coaching, we call this having conflicting intentions. The effect is that one intention cancels the other out and nothing happens.
The other factor that stops people from achieving what they really want is a lack of expecting the desired result to happen. If they have made a firm decision and clearly pictured the goals they want to achieve, and really they believe they can accomplish what they set out to do, then it’s often a lack of expectation that gets in the way.
People will say they want something, but then they don’t actually expect it will happen. They don’t take the action they need to take as if they were expecting it to happen, and consequently they don’t see the opportunity because they’re not really expecting it to show up.
So, the steps necessary to visualize your success are clarity, decision, visualization, feel the feelings, believe, expect results and take committed action. If you’re missing one of these steps, go back to the beginning and go through all the steps again to achieve the outcomes you really want.
Share your thoughts on visualizing below. What success have you had with visualizing the results you desire?
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© by Jan Marie Dore of Femalepreneurs.com.
Jan Marie Dore mentors coaches, speakers, consultants and other solo-professional women to work fewer hours and make more money with online business building strategies. Get your free ‘Professional Women’s Success Kit’ and other marketing resources at Femalepreneurs.com
Give Yourself Permission to Shine
Posted by: | CommentsEach of us is unique. Each of us has gifts to share and a contribution to make.
Have you been giving yourself permission to shine with your gifts and talents, or have you been dimming your light and not sharing it with others in the way you know you could?
“As we let our light shine, we consciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence actually liberates others.” ~ Marianne Williamson
When you are out networking, do you love to hear the question, “Tell me, what do you do?” or do you dread it and stumble over your answer? If you don’t love the question, it’s a sign that you may not be embracing your inner brilliance. You may need to spend some time getting clearer on your strengths and the unique way that you can help people so that you can confidently share your power and expertise with others.
As a coach, part of my role is to challenge my clients. I want to challenge you to make the choice to release your resistance. Dare to go beyond worrying about what other people think and let your light shine brightly. Give yourself permission to draw outside the lines. Step outside your comfort zone. Perhaps you can change the world!
To your suceess,
Jan
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Stepping Up to a Bigger Stage in Your Business
Posted by: | CommentsAre you ready to step up to a bigger stage in your business?
For several months now, I have been feeling called to step up in a bigger way and live more of my purpose by getting out and giving more talks, presentations, and live events.
I must say, I have also been resisting being more visible in this way and sharing my message with larger audiences in several ways by:
- not clarifying what I would like to speak about
- not honing in on my unique talents, specialty or passion
- getting bogged down in too many to-dos and non-revenue-generating activities
Are you experiencing any of these things?
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Be the Change Awards with Suzanne Evans
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My colleague Suzanne Evans is hosting a one-of-a-kind Online Awards Show this week. It’s the second annual “Be the Change Awards” honouring 12 Entrepreneurs and the movements they created that changed the world! The awards will feature interviews with a parade of major players who are going to reveal the secrets of how they built their six and seven-figure businesses.
It’s going to showcase how each of these entrepreneurs was able to create a massive difference while they were creating massive profits.
And they are going to reveal the secrets – for free – of how you can do it too.
Sign up Here for the Free Online “Be the Change Awards”
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Is It Time to Reinvent Yourself?
Posted by: | CommentsI regularly lead a lot of teleclasses and group coaching programs for coaches, consultants and other professional women. One of my recent participants said:
“I’m tired of playing small. It’s not satisfying me or paying my bills. I’m not making enough money in this work which I love.”
I’ve been hearing this a lot lately. Women who love their work and want to make a bigger difference…who have a purpose and a message and want to take it bigger. . . . who are ready to get out there and connect with more people and not be so isolated in their home office.
I see many women ready to reinvent themselves and their business and get there voice out into the world in a bigger way.
These are the 3 key shifts I see many women need to make to take their message and their income to higher levels:
1. Shift into a more leveraged, specialized business model.
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Have You Mastered Procrastination?
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One of the most important skills for an entrepreneur is decision making. Lack of quick decision making is one of the main causes of business failure.
Successful entrepreneurs learn the skill of making definite decisions quickly, changing their decisions slowly, and then getting into action quickly.
Struggling entrepreneurs have the opposite habit. They procrastinate and make decisions very slowly, then change their mind so quickly and frequently that they don’t get into the action and momentum required to succeed. They are easily influenced to change their mind and follow a different path or a different teacher. They will listen to other people’s opinions instead of following their own inner wisdom.
Does that sound like you? If you allow yourself to be too easily influenced by others, and to procrastinate on making decisions, you will not succeed. You may need to gather some facts and information from others, but the ultimate decision lies with you.
Cultivate the habit of having a mind of your own. Trust your intuition and inner wisdom to guide you in making the right decisions for you and your business.
Here’s something you can do right now to stop procrastinating. Make a list of all the decisions you need to make, both big and small. Tap into your intuition or wise self and jot down your answer to each decision quickly. Make a definite yes or no answer, and start trusting that it’s the right answer for you. Go with it, and get into immediate action on your “yes’ decisions. Your success will be practically guaranteed!
Top Seven Business Tips for Women Entrepreneurs
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Over the past thirteen years, I have worked with hundreds of women entrepreneurs as their business coach. I’ve noticed that many women small business owners experience the same challenges in growing and running their businesses, such as feeling overwhelmed and isolated, having difficulty keeping focused, not enrolling enough support, and not planning for growth.
Here’s a summary of my best advice for any woman running a small business – my top seven tips for women entrepreneurs:
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Are You Taking Your Place in the World?
Posted by: | CommentsI work with women to fulfill their purpose and potential through entrepreneurship. Yet many of these women lose sight of why they went business in the first place, and start to lose their passion and enthusiasm over time. 
One client I’ll call Mary, came to be because she was at her wits end drowning in paperwork, emails, and to-do lists. She felt drained, overworked, and uninspired. She was in a place of not remembering why she had started her business in the first place or what she felt called to do.
Her reason for going into business was because she felt a strong call to make a contribution in the world. She didn’t know exactly how to do that in the way she imagined, so she just started with what she knew. This is where most women start, but they often get lost along the way.
By the time Mary came to me, she was exhausted, ready to give up, and had very limited financial resources remaining.
Here’s what I had her do to turn her situation around quickly – and you can to!
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Marketing is an Inside Job
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Marketing and sales is what business is all about. Knowing how to effectively promote yourself can give you control over your income. Even though you provide a service such as coaching, consulting, or training, if you don’t also master the skill of marketing, you’ll struggle to attract enough clients to keep you in business for a long time.
You need to do three key things:
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Top Ten Traits of Successful People – Dianne Buckner
Posted by: | CommentsI was at the Journey 2 Success conference last week put on by Anne Day and Company of Women. Dianne Buckner was the luncheon keynote speaker. Dianne has been a business journalist for 20 years and has watched closely as some people have struck it rich, while others have struggled and ultimately failed.
Dianne counted down her Top Ten Tips of Successful People, based on her observations of hundreds of business people, both big and small. Here they are summarized for you:
- They are tuned into trends.
Diane’s suggestion was to follow people on Twitter on your keywords. You don’t even have to be posting on Twitter yourself to be tuned into what’s going on.

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Jan Marie Dore is passionate about empowering women entrepreneurs to get their message out to wider audiences and reach new levels of success, fulfillment and profits in their business. Her clients are women around the world who have a talent, passion, service or expertise they want to share to make a difference in people’s lives.